Breakthrough, LLC

Welcome to learning how to regain control of kids, house and life.

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End of Summer Special

Interactive Task Sheet Free (Value $44.90) with purchase of Vlinder Reward Cards. $34.90

Instructions: Purchase the Reward Cards and for a limited time only you will automatically get your free download of the Interactive Task Sheet by email. 

25% off Consultations with any Vlinder Purchase

In order to take advantage of the end of summer special you must purchase an item from the Vlinder store. Prices vary. Free consultation not part of offer. Invoice will include all promotions.


Breakthrough’s Mission

Parenting with Intention. Everything that works doesn’t have to come with a big price tag. 

Our mission is to offer families tools they need to create an environment of structure and support with the reinforcement that encourages growth.


  • Strengthen your child’s social and emotional resilience through play!

  • Make big changes in your home, without big resistance.

  • Use game-like tactics to teach long-term life lessons.

  • Experience everyday responsibilities while practicing to communicate, cooperate and connect.

Vlinder is more than just a game – it is a game changer.  It is an influential tool that brings out your child’s strengths and heads-off difficulties.  This powerful project gives your child a better opportunity to grow and creates a home environment of which they can be proud.

-Jennifer Smit

Breakthrough, LLc and Vlinder

Simply put it’s positive reinforcement.

Sometimes you give your child a smile which is rewarding enough. That’s how simple this game is. You get to use what you’ve learned along the way to help reinforce new behaviors that you want your child to hold on to. 

Operant Learning

Operant Conditioning is when your child learns a lesson because they learned an association between a behavior and a reward or consequence.  

Reward vs Bribery

I’ve written an entire blog on this subject. In short…a bribe is when you are offering payment at the moment to stop a behavior. No planning and no conversation. A reward is an arrangement that is discussed prior to any situation and is agreed upon. Especially with regards to playing Vlinder, this subject is non-negotiable.

Bummer Cards

Bummer cards are cards placed in the pack to be funny. They can be taken out at any time if the family does not feel that they serve a purpose.

Interactive Task Sheet

There are two different types of Task Sheets. One that you can make on your own, online. That is the Interactive Task Sheet. There is also one that is premade.


Consultations are available. They vary in price but normally run about $40/hour. Consultations are by appointment only.


 Upcoming Curricular Events & Activities



6th Grade Camp

Parents are reving up for older children to be out of the house. Focusing on younger children behaviors.

Event Info

For one week older siblings will be out of the house allowing younger children to take on some older responsibilities. Good time to change up those task sheets.



Summer Sales

Time to imporve our sales during the slow summer months. A perfect time to practice Vlinder. 

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Enjoy a 50% off sale the entire month of August. If we sell it, then it’s 50% off.



June Sale

And the sales just keep coming. We don’t like to keep you guessing. But we throw in extra bonuses along the way!

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For the month of June everyone gets 20% off everything in the shop. If you are a returning customer you get 50% off.



Fourth of July 

Our Nations Birthday.

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Back to School Sales

Time to appreciate all of your support!

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I we sell it in our shop, then it is 25% off!



Staff Appreciation

and more!!!

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Our News & Announcements

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Create Your Dandelion Space, Wishes Come True

We all need to take some time for ourselves every once in a while! Some have more resources than others. I’m not only speaking of monetary resources. Some moms and dads are simply to stressed out to leave the house. Building what I call in this video as a dandelion space, is a spot where you can make your wishes come true. If it is to read a book or take a minute to day dream. Good luck to one and all!  

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Location: California

Telephone: (800) 278-8520


Hours: M-F: 8am – 5pm PST

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Breakthrough LLC does not discriminate on the basis of race, color, religion, sex, age, national origin, veteran status, sexual orientation, gender identity, disability, or any other basis of discrimination prohibited by law.