Strengthen your child’s social and emotional resilience through play!
Make big changes in your home, without big resistance.
Use game-like tactics to teach long-term life lessons.
Experience everyday responsibilities while practicing to communicate, cooperate and connect.
Vlinder is more than just a game – it is a game changer. It is an influential tool that brings out your child’s strengths and heads-off difficulties. This powerful project gives your child a better opportunity to grow and creates a home environment
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We make it possible to support entire families in their efforts to become productive and successful members of their family and then community. Starting with the home and extending out to schools and daycares, we are teaching life skills that every parent, teacher and employer are looking for.
Before I had Breakthrough I was flying by the seat of my pants, letting intuition be my guide. I knew I was a good mother, I would do anything for my kids. But my life was chaotic and they were running circles around me.
When I brought my work home with me and created the structure they needed it started to make sense. I took the time off to create something undeniably a must-have for any young family.
Now I’ve shared the foundation of the game. A highly comprehensive life-skill program, collected over 20 years, that all family members can benefit from.
My kids play this pen and paper game every day. It sure is better than those video games.
My family recently got Vlinder delivered to our home. We took a couple days to open it up. What was really nice is that Jenn followed up with us to help us get started. There is no game companies that I know of that do that type of stuff. It’s like the personal touch you always wanted. So we took the game out of the box and started going through it. We spent a good hour to ninety minutes becoming oriented with the rules and how it works. My children started playing right away and they have been playing every day since. We are at the point now where we are customizing some of the game tasks specifically for our family needs.
My children really like the point system. It’s an absolute hit. My son only got nine points so he ran around the house doing chores so he could get up to twelve and get a reward.
The real genius of the Breakthrough game is how it rewards points to simple chores that parents want their kids to do every day and that includes positive behavior.
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Simply put it’s positive reinforcement.
Sometimes you give your child a smile which is rewarding enough. That’s how simple this game is. You get to use what you’ve learned along the way to help reinforce new behaviors that you want your child to hold on to.
Operant Conditioning is when your child learns a lesson because they learned an association between a behavior and a reward or consequence.
Reward vs Bribery
I’ve written an entire blog on this subject. In short…a bribe is when you are offering payment at the moment to stop a behavior. No planning and no conversation. A reward is an arrangement that is discussed prior to any situation and is agreed upon. Especially with regards to playing Vlinder, this subject is non-negotiable.
Bummer cards are cards placed in the pack to be funny. They can be taken out at any time if the family does not feel that they serve a purpose.
Interactive Task Sheet
There are two different types of Task Sheets. One that you can make on your own, online. That is the Interactive Task Sheet. There is also one that is premade.
Consultations are available. They vary in price but normally run about $40/hour. Consultations are by appointment only.
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Children need a sense of purpose. During this time away from school, friends, and activities it is a good idea to implement some structure. You can utilize your Breakthrough game, Vlinder, to meet both of those goals.
News about the Corona Virus is everywhere. If you haven’t already, it’s important to keep your children informed about what is going on. You might think that sheltering your children is better than letting them understand the truth.
Anger is the result of three things, something happening, how we experience it and ultimately how we react. The parent who experienced the spilled milk and was angry one day but wasn’t the day before had other internal and external things that affected their response. Let’s take a closer look at the difference between internal and external factors and how they affect a person’s anger.
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